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LOVE – that elusive emotion that captures our hearts, minds, and imagination! We all want it, but the big question that plagues many of us is, “How do I get it?” This article answers that all-important question and will set you on the road to welcoming love into your life, whether you want it for the first time, had it and lost it, or just want to feel more of it in your current relationship.
Being mentally prepared to allow love into your life can be the catalyst that sets everything in motion for you. If you’re single and used to living alone, you may be pretty set in your ways. You may have a “single” mindset and, regardless of how much you desire love, you can’t picture disrupting your life to let someone else in.
Sharing your life with another would entail major changes to your lifestyle. Let’s face it; the single lifestyle is pretty ego-centric. You go where you want, when you want, and with whom you want. Letting someone else in would change some of that. But does love really cramp your style? Or does it give you wings? Only you can decide.
There are also physical actions you can take to help you prepare yourself mentally for sharing your life with another:
1. Make room in your house. Is there room in your house for another person? You may want to do some cleaning so that another person and their stuff would fit in your house.
2. Make room in your bed. Instead of sleeping right smack in the middle and taking up the entire bed, move over to one side a bit.
3. Make room in your garage. If you have a double car garage, but only one car fits in, do some cleaning here, also, to make room for someone else’s car.
All these things can help your mind get ready for love and in fact – expect it! Instead of pushing love away, you’ll be ready to welcome it into your heart and mind.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF - Finding love is really a quest within yourself more than a quest outside of you. You deserve love! Know that you deserve to be happy. When you believe in yourself, you open the doors to love. If you feel that you’re undeserving of love, then you push it further and further away from you.
Invariably, others will follow your lead in how you treat yourself and treat you the same way. If you treat yourself with love, others will instinctively love you. If you treat yourself with respect, you can command the respect of others. Never accept disrespect or mistreatment - from yourself or others!
Lastly, be yourself. Being yourself is being true to yourself. When you act like you’re someone you’re not, others will, sooner or later, see through the façade. The dishonesty that started out to make you look good will make you look undesirable instead! In your quest for love, your belief in yourself will draw others to you. You can see this in action all around you.
During coaching sessions, building my clients' confidence is the foundation of our work. Yes, you want to be in a relationship with someone else. But, this is really about you and your ability to be comfortable in your own skin.
Those who exude self-confidence always attract more attention from the opposite sex. Recognize your strengths and abilities and be proud of who you are!
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PUT THE PAST IN THE PAST- It’s important to let go of past loves and forgive those who have hurt you. Even though you think you may be punishing the one who hurt you, the only one you’re really hurting is yourself.
It’s very difficult to welcome new love into your life when you’re holding onto such
negative emotions about prior experiences with love.
How can you let go of such powerful negative emotions?
Try these techniques:
1. Use affirmations. When you feel a negative emotion about the past, replace it
with a statement that evokes a positive emotion instead.
Once you’ve released the past and put it where it belongs (in the past), you’re free
to focus on your present to bring new love into your life.
Dropping old baggage and leaving the past in your rear view is often easier said than done. If you would like to explore how you can create a new love life click here.